Friday, February 14, 2025

Appalachian Valentine's Traditions


Valentine’s Day traditions in Appalachia often blend heartfelt simplicity, creativity, and the strong sense of community and family that the region is known for. Every holiday is deeply rooted in the longstanding traditions and culture of Appalachians. While many customs align with broader, modern Valentine’s Day practices, there are unique Appalachian twists—practical in decades past and still cherished today.


As a culture, we tend to use what we have or craft something meaningful from what’s on hand. While modern Appalachians might occasionally hear “He went to Jared’s” or receive a special light blue jewelry box from that famous breakfast spot, Valentine’s Day has always been a more low-key affair in my family.




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1. Handmade Gifts and Cards

  • In true Appalachian tradition, many people prefer crafting their Valentine’s gifts. Handmade cards, quilts, or knitted items like scarves are popular. These gifts reflect the care and time put into creating something meaningful.

Strawberry Overdose

2. Homemade Sweets

  • Food plays a central role in Appalachian Valentin
    e’s celebrations. Homemade treats like molasses cookies, apple pies,cakes, pies,  or fudge are often shared. 




3. Valentine’s Barn Dances

  • Communities in Appalachia used to hold barn dances or square dances around Valentine’s Day. These dances were lively, full of music, and provide an opportunity for couples and singles alike to enjoy the holiday together.  Decades ago, it was not proper for a courting couple to be alone together but a Barn Dance or even Church were opportunities to meet.

Poem by Christopher Ryan Turpin

4. Love Letters and Poetry

  • Appalachians have a long history of storytelling and poetry. Writing heartfelt letters or poems to loved ones is a cherished tradition, often reflecting the natural beauty of the mountains and deep emotional connections.




Airing of the Quilts
5. Quilts

  • In some areas, quilting bees or gatherings might be held to create special quilts for loved ones. These quilts are often shared as tokens of love and family ties.  
  • A "wedding ring quilt" pattern might be given as a symbol of love and commitment.  If a couple were not able to afford wedding rings, members of the community would gift a wedding ring quilt to the newlyweds.


Waterfall in Appalachia
6. Nature Walks and Picnics

  • Surrounded by the stunning Appalachian landscape, couples and families may take advantage of the outdoors, enjoying hikes, picnics, or scenic drives. A cozy picnic with quilts, homemade treats, and warm cider is a classic way to celebrate.
  • One of my favorite Valentine's Day, ever, was a quick hike to a waterfall in the North Georgia Appalachians.


7. Church Celebrations

  • Small Appalachian churches sometimes organize Valentine’s banquets or gatherings, with potluck-style meals, games, and fellowship. These events emphasize community and love beyond romantic relationships.
Can he sing and fiddle?


8. Traditional Music Serenades

  • In keeping with Appalachian folk music traditions, love songs might be sung or played on instruments like the fiddle, banjo, or dulcimer. This could happen at home, at a community gathering, or even as a form of serenading a loved one.


9. Homemade Decorations

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    Appalachians often create Valentine’s decorations with simple materials. Paper garlands, heart-shaped crafts, or floral arrangements using dried flowers are common.  

10. Family and Community-Focused Celebrations

  • Valentine’s Day in Appalachia often isn't limited to romantic relationships. It’s an opportunity to show love and appreciation for family, friends, and neighbors through shared meals, small gifts, or acts of kindness.



And if you forget to bring home flowers and chocolates, don't forget the moonshine.



The charm of Valentine’s Day in Appalachia lies in its simplicity and sincerity, where traditions focus on handmade expressions of love, strong community ties, and the natural beauty of the mountains.



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